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The Act of Surrendering to God/Goddess ~ Rev. Goddess Charmaine “The Sensuous Mystic”

I believe my spiritual understanding of anal sex awakened because the level of shame that was released when I allowed myself to be deeply penetrated and paralyzed with pleasure shed light on the power of the body! I began a deeper path of realization once my ass accepted that lovely wand of delight. The pressure, the breathing, the sweating and yes, oh yes, the prayer! Oh, God, Oh God!!!

I know it might not sound so easy to dive into anal sex. But you can! You can allow yourself every heart-wrenching devouring joy there is in your journey of anal sex pleasure. And with that, you can awaken your spirituality and dance on another plane of existence.

First and foremost know! Know that your body was created for pleasure and fun and to manifest your divine birthright of prosperity on earth! Through your ability to intensify your erotic energy, your sex acts will bless your life in more ways than you can imagine!

My journey made me aware of the last bit of shame that was inside my screwed up head because of religion, family and society! Opening my ass for pleasure purged the shit that no longer could keep me in bondage! All those thoughts that plagued me and forced me to believe that I wasn’t pretty enough, that no one could love me, that I was going to hell, that I was crazy flew out of me and I was left with the clean consciousness of pure love. I accepted myself and received the correct information about my original blessing. I AM BORN BLESSED!

What’s most important in the spiritual act of anal sex is the belief that god/goddess is within all living things and as beings in physical form we access the divine within through deep surrender in sexual activity. Sexual energy is life force and anal sex is one of the most powerful acts of love we can share with another. God has given us the gift of our bodies and we all grow and thrive together.

My experience happened by accident but before that glorious moment I did have a past lover that wanted to try anal sex, but neither one of us knew how to get that cock into my ass without clumsy pain and I stopped him in his tracks. Wonderful to learn that there are so many ways to enjoy anal play. With your fingers (butterfly rub) or with your tongue (butterfly kiss) and to enjoy the exchange of pleasure that men and women can share. Women, we can penetrate our male lovers as well and allow them passage into our portal.

Butterfly Kiss, Butterfly Rub, Penetration and Orgasm all happens because of that one act: Surrender.

One of my most powerful moments was realizing I could penetrate and even better I could strap it on! I love expanding my body and mind and I soon discovered that my spiritual faith strengthened as well.
You see, we mature and develop through our sexual experiences. Releasing fear and shame and old negative programming leaves you with your original imprint. You are Blessed! This has helped me in so many ways. Please understand that these are all acts of self love and honoring the divine within yourself and the other that you choose to share this sacred act with.

Anal sex can be painful. So set intention and vibration to make your space sacred. Like, know from within yourself that you choose to do this for pleasure and to bring more joy into your life. Maybe even light candles and burn sage and light incense. Share yourself with someone with whom you feel safe, aroused and that you trust. I use organic extra virgin coconut oil for finger and tongue play in that beautiful wanting ass. However, when you are ready to get deeper and deeper with the dick or with your strap on, use Astro Glide gel. It’s much thicker and will help to glide that thick wand of light inside much smoother. I did a lot of reading and watching videos once I stepped into this reality and I’ve enjoyed my education and process so much! It was and continues to be a blessing in my life.

This is an excerpt from a story in my book. The Goddess Scrolls ~ Sacred Erotic Tales

Anal Portal Power ~

(“She spreads my ass cheeks apart and blows into my asshole. I shiver in response and waves explode throughout my body. Then it begins, her touching my spot. My Sacred Spot. And she rubs me there! In circles as her oiled finger glides around and up and down she rubs and generates sensations not able to be explained in my ass. The folds of skin at my asshole flip and squeeze into tingles of delight. I start to see light behind the blindfold and deep in my minds eye. Light of different shades and color as my spot is rubbed into openness. she blows into my opening again and now I feel her wave all the way at the top of my head. I shiver and exhale as my ass wants to pop up in the air and receive more. You must surrender yourself to me fully, Goddess commands! Let me enter! Enter me Goddess, I agree!”)

Trust yourself, if you are thinking about diving into anal play, now is the time. If you have already enjoyed the nectar of anal intercourse then perhaps think about it from the spiritual emotional healing place. Either way, you are always blessed!

“You are Spiritually whole, and Sexually perfect! Your Body knows it and shows it! And So It Is……..Goddess Blessings ~ Rev. Goddess Charmaine

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  • Reply
    Cristian Mirabelli
    November 3, 2016 at 6:50 pm

    Hi Goddess Charmaine
    When you talk about get arousal and naked , I feel jerking off even on Anal sex subject
    What could be? I enjoying watch your educational sexual videos
    When you are online such webinars?



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    Rev. Goddess Charmaine
    December 6, 2016 at 2:02 pm

    Thank you, Goddess Blessings

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    Thomas Klein
    November 2, 2019 at 1:15 pm

    I aquint this act with suffering. How exactly had this possibly brought you into higher levels of existence… If you have entered higher higher levels what makes you think this had to do with it and not living from the heart. I see damage to spirituality, nothing healing about it.

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      Rev. Goddess Charmaine
      November 2, 2019 at 1:51 pm

      Hi Tom,
      My first experience with attempted anal sex did not go well and it was something that I was not wanting to try again. I was open to trying it the first time because of my relationship and willingness to express and have pleasure in many ways. However we both didn’t know what we were doing and it did not go well. I understand how you could feel this is painful and suffering. As we all grow in our bodies and spiritual consciousness. Spirit in the way I teach is “thought in action” so my acts are in alignment with my thoughts. Coming from that place when I had anal sex again with another lover it was absolutely amazing. Sensuous, loving, connected, one. I felt like something inside of me opened me to a deep pleasure that allowed my existence to feel even more at one with all life. I know it sounds crazy. It’s true for me though. And actually others feel the same about anal sex. And then there is Anal Tantra, a practice that is focused on achieving higher levels of awareness ability and consciousness. We must surrender to our faith and in our sexual relationships we experience god / goddess together and different types of sexual exchange can be a path to this same enlightenment. Anal sex in and of itself is not a spiritual practice. I however, had a spiritual experience of a deeper oneness. Then, I wanted to discover what else can I achieve through this. I was happy to learn about Anal Tantra. The same way I started back in a day to wonder how sex was also a spiritual practice. Thanks for sharing. I hope you understand me. Goddess Blessings

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        jillian lunyou
        February 11, 2022 at 5:41 am

        my first experience was actually also not good, but every time after that has been amazing, so maybe take it slow

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    February 22, 2021 at 7:43 pm

    Thank you for your post. I am 19 years old man, and i have a lovely girlfriend which i love from my heart. She is my goddess and i Love giving her my love in sex. We have tried anal sex few times and both enjoyed it. But as i get spiritually wiser, i was thinking, that only my ego wants to be in her ass. Can you please tell me the truth about why men want to put their Light wand into girls Ass? Please i would be really glad if you would tell me more about why men likes this. I am looking forward for your answer. 🙂

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      Rev. Goddess Charmaine
      February 22, 2021 at 8:12 pm

      Hello Michal,

      Men are not the only ones that desire to try anal sex. Women are very curious as well. Even to do it both ways. However, it’s not about the sexual act specifically. It’s about openness. Since we are speaking of anal sex, we must be able to surrender at a very deep physical level and emotionally to allow someone to penetrate us in this way. That emotional openness allows us to access another level of awareness of our relationship to one another and then hopefully with our spiritual selves. Med desire such a deep surrender from women to be able to feel that she completely trusts you and feels safe with you. That surrender transforms everyone into a deeper connection and then it expands itself into how a man can then provide for their woman. Sex acts are our ways to see how deep we can get. If you go into a High Sex Consciousness, then you quickly learn that the sex act is the opening to the Divine. Then we can merge with all life with another person. How deeply we open our asses for this is so beautiful, for those that desire it. Hope this helps. Goddess Blessings ~ RGC

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    William J Johnson
    May 30, 2021 at 10:31 pm

    Thank goodness I found your post. I, too, had grown thinking anal pleasure is a taboo. Within the past couple of years I have the complete opposite to be beautifully true. By now, after learning to relax, accept, and enjoy my own anal adventures, I am able to no longer refer to my self love as mere masturbation, but true love-making. I have experienced the same sensations described here, and I hope to discover more. Blessings to you for sharing.

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